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Flirting After 40

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Ladies, have you found the dating scene to be increasingly intimidating, that as you get older it gets harder and harder to approach men? Dating expert Regena "Mama Gena" Thomashauer says that you need to focus on turning yourself on before you can turn on that special someone else. "There's one thing that all women have in common - our lights are off," she explains. "When you're 3 years old, you know how bright and flirty and adorable and filled with joy you are? As a woman gets older her light gets dimmer and dimmer and dimmer; it's my mission to turn women on ... to themselves." Watch the video above to see Mama Gena attempt to help three 40+ women get their mojo back with the simple art of flirting. "Flirting is merely turning yourself on in the presence of another person!"

Get two of Mama Gena's top tips below, and ask her your dating questions on our message boards!

• "Flirtation as a lifestyle; flirt with your doorman, flirt with the guy at the coffee shop ... get your flirt on!"

• "Every guy has a hero inside that a woman can inspire when she's empowered and she's pleasured ... because once you can put your key in your own ignition, turn that baby on and take her down the highway, you can invite passengers! And we can do that because we are women and we got the power!"

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